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A place to share greatest or nightmares of IT
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2011.01.06 16:50 areich Fasting: willingly abstaining for a period of time
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2023.03.22 11:15 saladkupi Niece stole my money and doesn't want to admit
Long story short i left my bag downstairs but my mom always kept my stuff in her room if ive forgotten to get my stuff. It wasnt my mom and 100% is my niece.
I went out after the stealing happened, and saw i lost my $50, maybe thay amount is not a big deal but i am a student and every dollar is obviously precious. When i got home i asked my sister, That time my sister found her action suspicious bcs she kept asking if im home and if i knew that i left my bag there. She even kept asking if i was still out.
I wanted to confront her but mind you she got an attitude, always throw tantrums. Shes 9 btw. My mom doesnt let me raise this up to her or her parents, and she said she will pay me that money. yes i care abt the money but at the same time i care abt my niece too. We are very close and i took care of her when she was a little kid. So the next day i had an idea to fake a scenario, told her i need help to get my money back because if i dont get them i will have to give back my car to the shop lol, and if she found them ill give $10 but only if its in a full amount. I could see she looks terrified. Ik my idea will led her fake a scenario too where she acted like she found it under the sofa. Turns out my idea worked out well and the scenario is exactly what i predicted. She gave me the money but it was only $30. Then i said 30 isnt enough for me to keep my car, so i still need help. Then the next day again, after i got back home, she asked if i found the money. Thats where i kinda lost it bcs shes trying to make it sound like shes genuinely concerned so that she doesnt look suspicious.
So i brought her to my room and i said this is gonna be a very calm conversation and im not mad, but i know that u did it (told her why its obvious that it was her) she didnt wanna admit and said "i would never do that, i am scared of stealing money" so i asked her to swear (cus i know kids are scared to say it when they lie) then she threw tantrum again and stormed out of the room.
My mom got mad at me for asking her, she didnt want me to do it cus shes scared the parents mjght get angry at us for accusing their child.
The reason why im posting it here, is i think i just want to know if im doing the right thing and also need some advice on how to sctually tackle this. Thanks guys
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I went out after the stealing happened, and saw i lost my $50, maybe thay amount is not a big deal but i am a student and every dollar is obviously precious. When i got home i asked my sister, That time my sister found her action suspicious bcs she kept asking if im home and if i knew that i left my bag there. She even kept asking if i was still out.
I wanted to confront her but mind you she got an attitude, always throw tantrums. Shes 9 btw. My mom doesnt let me raise this up to her or her parents, and she said she will pay me that money. yes i care abt the money but at the same time i care abt my niece too. We are very close and i took care of her when she was a little kid. So the next day i had an idea to fake a scenario, told her i need help to get my money back because if i dont get them i will have to give back my car to the shop lol, and if she found them ill give $10 but only if its in a full amount. I could see she looks terrified. Ik my idea will led her fake a scenario too where she acted like she found it under the sofa. Turns out my idea worked out well and the scenario is exactly what i predicted. She gave me the money but it was only $30. Then i said 30 isnt enough for me to keep my car, so i still need help. Then the next day again, after i got back home, she asked if i found the money. Thats where i kinda lost it bcs shes trying to make it sound like shes genuinely concerned so that she doesnt look suspicious.
So i brought her to my room and i said this is gonna be a very calm conversation and im not mad, but i know that u did it (told her why its obvious that it was her) she didnt wanna admit and said "i would never do that, i am scared of stealing money" so i asked her to swear (cus i know kids are scared to say it when they lie) then she threw tantrum again and stormed out of the room.
My mom got mad at me for asking her, she didnt want me to do it cus shes scared the parents mjght get angry at us for accusing their child.
The reason why im posting it here, is i think i just want to know if im doing the right thing and also need some advice on how to sctually tackle this. Thanks guys
2023.03.22 11:15 jamesh31 Feeling shaken after first tour
Hey everyone, I just recently finished my first bicycle tour - a 250km three day excursion to test myself and get ready before setting off on a longer tour. I loved the experience and can't wait to go back to it, but there were definitely a few hiccups along the way that have left me questioning my preparedness. I could really use some advice from those more experienced.
Firstly, I really struggled with proper nutrition. I had trouble eating meals that would give me enough energy so I basically lived off cookies and sugary foods for the whole trip. I was just too tired at the end of each day to cook. This led to my energy crashing on the final day and having to flag down a passing car for help. I was extremely lucky that the man was so generous. He gave me five protein bars, an energy gel, and a can of coke! Through a combination of exhaustion and gratitude I couldn't hold back my tears as he gave them to me. So how do you manage proper nutrition on a bicycle tour? How do you make sure that you're always eating enough without overeating, or is this something that I should even be concerned about?
My second issue was the rain. It rained for the entirity of the final day. My waterproof rainjacket, waterproof pants, goretex shoes, and smartwool socks were completely saturated and it was only 5C (41F) outside. My hands and feet were completely numb. I didn't camp on this night, but I can't imagine that my gear would have dried by the morning or that I would have been warm enough for the night. Is the solution to just have a spare set of dry clothes from camping and then get back into your wet gear until it eventually dries? What if you have endless days of endless rain? Do you just stay at a hostel? Do I just need overshoes and better gloves to better protect my extremities?
I've started to feel out of my depth but still want to set off on a longer tour. Any help here is very much appreciated!
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Firstly, I really struggled with proper nutrition. I had trouble eating meals that would give me enough energy so I basically lived off cookies and sugary foods for the whole trip. I was just too tired at the end of each day to cook. This led to my energy crashing on the final day and having to flag down a passing car for help. I was extremely lucky that the man was so generous. He gave me five protein bars, an energy gel, and a can of coke! Through a combination of exhaustion and gratitude I couldn't hold back my tears as he gave them to me. So how do you manage proper nutrition on a bicycle tour? How do you make sure that you're always eating enough without overeating, or is this something that I should even be concerned about?
My second issue was the rain. It rained for the entirity of the final day. My waterproof rainjacket, waterproof pants, goretex shoes, and smartwool socks were completely saturated and it was only 5C (41F) outside. My hands and feet were completely numb. I didn't camp on this night, but I can't imagine that my gear would have dried by the morning or that I would have been warm enough for the night. Is the solution to just have a spare set of dry clothes from camping and then get back into your wet gear until it eventually dries? What if you have endless days of endless rain? Do you just stay at a hostel? Do I just need overshoes and better gloves to better protect my extremities?
I've started to feel out of my depth but still want to set off on a longer tour. Any help here is very much appreciated!
2023.03.22 11:14 __Locutus_of_BORG__ Join BORG Today… Resistance is Futile!
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Our primary means of income is salvage and mining, but we are an opportunistic group and find enjoyment in everything we do. Our highly moderated and fully functional discord (Level 3) provides many resources and tools for our members.
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Our primary means of income is salvage and mining, but we are an opportunistic group and find enjoyment in everything we do. Our highly moderated and fully functional discord (Level 3) provides many resources and tools for our members.
We enjoy helping new citizens discover what they want to do and get them established in their field of choice. Need a wingman? If you are an established veteran or are just starting out, we have you covered.
Join us... Resistance is futile!
Discord: https://discord.gg/e9hqr9ePgm (choose Star Citizen from the menu)
RSI Page: https://robertsspaceindustries.com/orgs/WEAREBORG
2023.03.22 11:14 endi1122 Would the xenobites count for this? (Yes, they are robots. Argue bellow)
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2023.03.22 11:14 TheRealAnubischick Vanessa's recipe - post epilogue content question.
Hi all,
I've finished the main storyline and am happily working on the Spring Fling but there is something that Peri said that has me curious.
She brewed the werewolf suppression potion from Vanessa's recipe which she said she found by the ocean and that she believes Vanessa ripped up her own grimoire and threw it in the ocean, and that there may be more to find out there. Is that something that actually happens in the current game or is it a bit like the lighthouse, it's there as a teaser to what might be later content?
Basically I want to know do I need to go beach combing/fishing/storm calling to get those pages?
Cheers
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I've finished the main storyline and am happily working on the Spring Fling but there is something that Peri said that has me curious.
She brewed the werewolf suppression potion from Vanessa's recipe which she said she found by the ocean and that she believes Vanessa ripped up her own grimoire and threw it in the ocean, and that there may be more to find out there. Is that something that actually happens in the current game or is it a bit like the lighthouse, it's there as a teaser to what might be later content?
Basically I want to know do I need to go beach combing/fishing/storm calling to get those pages?
Cheers
2023.03.22 11:14 Acceptable_Slide5192 Why The Market Always Reacts To The Fed’s Interest Rate Hikes - Part 2
Here are some more ways that Fed and RBI rate hikes can affect your money.
Mortgages Are Getting More Expensive
If the Fed raises interest rates again, people who need to borrow money to buy a house or use the equity in their home to pay for something else will In the coming months, you will most likely have to pay more.
Some economists predicted that interest rates would peak this summer. Midway through June, the 30-year fixed mortgage reached 5.81%, and economists predicted that rates would be in the low 5% range by the end of the year.
However, as the economy deteriorated and the Fed continued to raise rates aggressively, mortgage rates reached a new 20-year high of 7.08% in the middle of November, exceeding most forecasts for the year.
Mortgage rates have since fallen slightly. The average rate for the week ending December 8th, according to Freddie Mac, was 6.33%.
The bond market, which frequently reacts to what the Fed does, has a direct impact on mortgage rates.
The Fed's rate hikes in 2022 were one of the factors driving up mortgage rates earlier in the year. Investors' strong demand for mortgage bonds has aided the recent drop in rates. This is because the economy appears to be more stable, and Fed rate hikes, especially small ones, are no longer surprising.
The Fed funds rate, on the other hand, is directly related to shorter-term home loans with floating rates, such as adjustable-rate mortgages (ARMs) and home equity lines of credit. (HELOCs). This means that when that rate rises, so will the rates on ARMs and HELOCs.
Even though mortgage rates are still higher than they were in 2021, not everyone thinks this is a bad thing. Some real estate professionals believe that raising interest rates is one way to cool off an overheated housing market. Some believe that after years of low borrowing costs, it is time to return to normalcy.
Housing experts advise people who want to buy now to think about locking in the best interest rate possible, as rates can rise by the hour. Rate locks typically last at least 30 days, but some lenders offer longer locks for a fee.
It is difficult to know for certain whether you have locked in the lowest possible rate, but you can always refinance later if rates fall.
Although there is no direct relationship between federal funds and deposit rates, banks are steadily increasing the annual percentage yields (APYs) on deposit accounts such as savings accounts, money market accounts, and certificates of deposit. (CDs).
Rates rise to attract deposits, but banks have a lot of cash on hand right now, so they can take their time raising yields.
APYs on deposits will rise faster or slower depending on where you bank. Online banks, smaller banks, and credit unions typically have higher yields than large banks, and they've raised rates more quickly in recent months due to increased competition for deposits.
If you want to get a better return on your money, you should put it in an online bank or credit union. The average savings account rate has increased from 0.06% to 0.24% since January, but the best high-yield savings accounts pay up to 5% APY on some deposits.
Where you keep your money is critical, especially when inflation is on the rise.
submitted by Acceptable_Slide5192 to u/Acceptable_Slide5192 [link] [comments]
Mortgages Are Getting More Expensive
If the Fed raises interest rates again, people who need to borrow money to buy a house or use the equity in their home to pay for something else will In the coming months, you will most likely have to pay more.
Some economists predicted that interest rates would peak this summer. Midway through June, the 30-year fixed mortgage reached 5.81%, and economists predicted that rates would be in the low 5% range by the end of the year.
However, as the economy deteriorated and the Fed continued to raise rates aggressively, mortgage rates reached a new 20-year high of 7.08% in the middle of November, exceeding most forecasts for the year.
Mortgage rates have since fallen slightly. The average rate for the week ending December 8th, according to Freddie Mac, was 6.33%.
The bond market, which frequently reacts to what the Fed does, has a direct impact on mortgage rates.
The Fed's rate hikes in 2022 were one of the factors driving up mortgage rates earlier in the year. Investors' strong demand for mortgage bonds has aided the recent drop in rates. This is because the economy appears to be more stable, and Fed rate hikes, especially small ones, are no longer surprising.
The Fed funds rate, on the other hand, is directly related to shorter-term home loans with floating rates, such as adjustable-rate mortgages (ARMs) and home equity lines of credit. (HELOCs). This means that when that rate rises, so will the rates on ARMs and HELOCs.
Even though mortgage rates are still higher than they were in 2021, not everyone thinks this is a bad thing. Some real estate professionals believe that raising interest rates is one way to cool off an overheated housing market. Some believe that after years of low borrowing costs, it is time to return to normalcy.
Housing experts advise people who want to buy now to think about locking in the best interest rate possible, as rates can rise by the hour. Rate locks typically last at least 30 days, but some lenders offer longer locks for a fee.
It is difficult to know for certain whether you have locked in the lowest possible rate, but you can always refinance later if rates fall.
- Savings account interest rates are slowly rising.
Although there is no direct relationship between federal funds and deposit rates, banks are steadily increasing the annual percentage yields (APYs) on deposit accounts such as savings accounts, money market accounts, and certificates of deposit. (CDs).
Rates rise to attract deposits, but banks have a lot of cash on hand right now, so they can take their time raising yields.
APYs on deposits will rise faster or slower depending on where you bank. Online banks, smaller banks, and credit unions typically have higher yields than large banks, and they've raised rates more quickly in recent months due to increased competition for deposits.
If you want to get a better return on your money, you should put it in an online bank or credit union. The average savings account rate has increased from 0.06% to 0.24% since January, but the best high-yield savings accounts pay up to 5% APY on some deposits.
Where you keep your money is critical, especially when inflation is on the rise.
2023.03.22 11:14 Brave2512 Do I have any Legal Comeback?
I bought an unregistered used vehicle in an auction that was listed as being in good condition. I got a roadworthy inspection on it before I left the lot and got it registered and insured straight away, no issues came up on the roadworthy certificate other than that there was battery acid on the battery holder from a previously leaking battery. I also checked the vin number and it was all clear too. I noticed straight away that on acceleration the car made a slight whistling noise, but I thought maybe it was normal for the car, I also noticed the users manual looked like it had been half submerged in water at some point, but again just assumed maybe it had been dropped in a puddle as there was no history of flood damage or anything. Well 2 months later the car started making a strange noise on deceleration and so we booked it in for assessment. Low and behold the car is well and truly flood damaged, the gearbox is faulty, and the oil is sludgy blackness. It's booked in for a more in-depth check tomorrow to see what the full extend of the damages are. So maybe it'll be fixed with an oil change, or maybe it'll be written off completely. I just want to know if there is any legal recourse against anyone for the sale of a faulty car, and subsequent damage repairs. The auction lot states specifically that they are not professional car assessors and their word on the value of the car cannot hold them legally accountable, however they do have a warranty that my car falls under that should mean they pay for the damages up to next month, for pre-existing damages to the car, which I haven't actually filled out because it advised to get independent legal advise first and there was no specified cut off date to sign. The person who assessed the vehicle and deemed it roadworthy has issued a faulty certificate and I know that he either never test drove the car on inspection or simply didn't do a throughout inspection to miss the damages that were pretty apparently obvious to my mechanic within moments of test driving the car, this is further supported by a clause in the auction lot stating that cars on their lot cannot be test driven during a vehicle inspection, or excessively revved, so it looks like he has ticked yes to a test drive he never did. Lastly I've got full comprehensive insurance on the car, I don't suspect they'll pay anything, but could they investigate to prove that the damage was not done by me and therefore was present prior to me buying the car, which gives me some proof that at the very least the roadworthy certificate was erroneous? I do know that it is partially my fault for failing to get a roadworthy certificate prior to winning the auction as was my duty as buyer, but given as the roadworthy check failed to pick up the damages anyway it ends up with the same result of me buying a flood damaged car. I'm out of pocket $15,433.00 for the car, and it's registered for that value, and now it could potentially be $5000 or more to repair the damages gearbox if its not written off completely.
I'm under Australian - Queensland law. Please any advice on what I should/could do would be really appreciated here!
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I'm under Australian - Queensland law. Please any advice on what I should/could do would be really appreciated here!
2023.03.22 11:14 cinch123 I keep tearing the same muscle
After being diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes last year, I have been in a very successful diet and exercise journey to extend my life. I am down to 240 pounds from 292. I have been doing a combination of weight training 3 days a week and cardio 2-3 times a week. For cardio, I started with a 45 minute brisk walk, but I feel so good lately I have started jogging for as long as I can, then walking until I feel like I can jog again.
Back in late January I was jogging and started to have some pain in my right calf halfway between my heel and knee. It got worse and I had to limp home. I treated with ice, rest, and mild stretching, and a couple weeks later I started walking again, no running.
Today I felt confident enough to try another run. I hydrated, stretched and warmed up with a 10 minute brisk walk. I ran a 12 minute mile and felt great. Then about 2 minutes into the second mile I felt the same muscle tear. I had to limp home. Now I'm icing it.
I am very frustrated. I want to do this. I feel good enough to do it. I want to get in shape enough to run a 5k with my kid this fall. But every time I tear this muscle it makes cardio pretty much impossible for a couple weeks, and that's a huge setback for me.
What do I need to do to rehabilitate this muscle? Do I need to go to the doctor about it? Will PT do anything for it? Please help.
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Back in late January I was jogging and started to have some pain in my right calf halfway between my heel and knee. It got worse and I had to limp home. I treated with ice, rest, and mild stretching, and a couple weeks later I started walking again, no running.
Today I felt confident enough to try another run. I hydrated, stretched and warmed up with a 10 minute brisk walk. I ran a 12 minute mile and felt great. Then about 2 minutes into the second mile I felt the same muscle tear. I had to limp home. Now I'm icing it.
I am very frustrated. I want to do this. I feel good enough to do it. I want to get in shape enough to run a 5k with my kid this fall. But every time I tear this muscle it makes cardio pretty much impossible for a couple weeks, and that's a huge setback for me.
What do I need to do to rehabilitate this muscle? Do I need to go to the doctor about it? Will PT do anything for it? Please help.
2023.03.22 11:13 Adi_0000 Art made easy with Painta.
Hi everyone, I want to share this amazing tool called Painta. It’s an AI image generation tool that lets you create stunning visuals with just a few words. I’ve been having a blast experimenting with different inputs, styles and settings to see what Painta can come up with. It’s also very user-friendly and offers a lot of templates and features to help you get started.
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If you’re looking for a new way to explore your creativity, you should definitely check it out! 😊
https://www.producthunt.com/posts/painta
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If you want to run a successful agency and wonder how, look no further than Iman Gadzhi's Agency Navigator course.
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2023.03.22 11:13 pinksoccerballxoxo back in the game!
gm everyone! just wanted to check in here since it’s been a while :) after ~3 months, I started having a drink here and there - nothing crazy, mostly at a dinner or casual drinks with a friend. I will say that while nothing bad happened (managed to not get too drunk, didn’t blackout, didn’t do anything embarrassing) I am back on the alcohol-free train. honestly the main reason I decided to stop again was I just feel so much better when I’m not drinking. even a drink or 2 can make me feel so cloudy the next day, and while yes nothing bad happened, I’m sure it was only a matter of time until I did get too drunk and blackout and ruin all of my progress I’ve been making. I’ve been feeling lonely recently, going through a lot of change in terms of my relationships and when making new friends, it seems that drinking is a common activity, so that’s why I tried testing the waters. but honestly, I don’t feel like I need to drink to socialize, and in fact I like the person I am alcohol-free much better in social situations. I like being conscious of what I’m saying and how I’m presenting myself and how I show up for others. so! just wanted to check in and say hi and that I am back and have 6 days! looking forward to the days to come :)
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2023.03.22 11:12 GurBoth8364 Not hooha, but I am getting a butt crack/strip wax tomorrow.. Advice for prep or aftercare?
I am getting my butt crack waxed tomorrow, I know I need to shower first and wear loose pants… but that’s all I know and I have quite a bit of questions.
I am currently au naturel back there so the hair is quite long, is that okay? I also don’t know how I would go about trimming it if I need to lol.
I am going to European Wax Center and their website says they put some kind of aftercare treatment on at the end, and you can buy it for $32, but is there a cheaper alternative at like Ulta or somewhere? I usually use coconut oil after I shave, would that work okay or would it be best to buy something specifically made for after waxing?
I am usually a thong gal, should I avoid them or are they better than bikini style undies? What about going commando? I am worried about chafing.
I would like to go back monthly, so I want to make sure I get the best out of my first experience. Any other tips about prep or aftercare is greatly welcomed!
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I am currently au naturel back there so the hair is quite long, is that okay? I also don’t know how I would go about trimming it if I need to lol.
I am going to European Wax Center and their website says they put some kind of aftercare treatment on at the end, and you can buy it for $32, but is there a cheaper alternative at like Ulta or somewhere? I usually use coconut oil after I shave, would that work okay or would it be best to buy something specifically made for after waxing?
I am usually a thong gal, should I avoid them or are they better than bikini style undies? What about going commando? I am worried about chafing.
I would like to go back monthly, so I want to make sure I get the best out of my first experience. Any other tips about prep or aftercare is greatly welcomed!
2023.03.22 11:12 Elegant_Pin_9398 I’m finally letting go of my narcissistic mother
Today was my graduation if a degree a worked so hard for while being pregnant and having my house flooded 4 times. I invited my mother to my graduation ceremony thinking she will be proud of me but part of me knew how she would act, I still wanted to give her a chance.
This is how she put me down for the last couple of days:
I don’t have to come, I’ll stay home with the baby.
What food is available?
We don’t have to go out to celebrate let’s just get take away.
You don’t have to take pictures with me I’ll just stay out here.
Do I have to dress up for your graduation?
After all this, we go out for lunch and then she wants me to take a photo of her with her fucking burger!
I’m finally letting go. It’s too much. She lives in another country and is moving back there in a couple of months so it won’t be hard!
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This is how she put me down for the last couple of days:
I don’t have to come, I’ll stay home with the baby.
What food is available?
We don’t have to go out to celebrate let’s just get take away.
You don’t have to take pictures with me I’ll just stay out here.
Do I have to dress up for your graduation?
After all this, we go out for lunch and then she wants me to take a photo of her with her fucking burger!
I’m finally letting go. It’s too much. She lives in another country and is moving back there in a couple of months so it won’t be hard!
2023.03.22 11:12 tienganh_langmaster CẤU TRÚC CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 1: CÔNG THỨC, CÁCH DÙNG VÀ VÍ DỤ CỤ THỂ
 | Câu điều kiện loại 1 và 2 là các dạng câu điều kiện đơn giản, được sử dụng khá nhiều trong các tình huống giao tiếp cũng như bài tập Tiếng Anh. Cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 1, 2 cũng là các điểm ngữ pháp rất quan trọng mà bạn không nên bỏ qua. Dưới đây là công thức cũng như cách sử dụng của từng loại câu để bạn dễ dàng tham khảo. submitted by tienganh_langmaster to u/tienganh_langmaster [link] [comments] A. Câu điều kiện loại 1 và cách sử dụngNếu bạn muốn dự đoán một hành động hoặc sự việc có thể xảy đến trong tương lai, nếu nó đi kèm với một điều kiện nhất định khác thì hãy sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 1. Đây là dạng câu điều kiện căn bản nhất mà những người bắt đầu học Tiếng Anh cần phải nắm vững và sử dụng thành thạo. https://preview.redd.it/0cikgn5km9pa1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=3704b8d41f3fda38c1e5b1de597faffc55d34541 1. Cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 1Các loại câu điều kiện nói chung đều có 2 mệnh đề: mệnh đề “nếu” (mệnh đề điều kiện, đi kèm “if”) và mệnh đề “thì” (mệnh đề chính, đề cập đến hành động, sự việc sẽ xảy ra trong điều kiện đó.If + S + V(s/es), S + will/can/shall + V(nguyên mẫu) IF+ thì hiện tại đơn, Will + Động từ nguyên mẫu https://preview.redd.it/j84t37okm9pa1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=5da058a0f0e04fff9727709d912f71bbc8150404 - Trong một số trường hợp, cấu trúc của câu điều kiện loại 1 có thể thay thế "will" bằng "must/should/have to/ought to/can/may". - Mệnh đề điều kiện (mệnh đề “if”) có thể đứng ở vế đầu câu hoặc vế sau và thường được chia ở thì hiện tại đơn. Mệnh đề chính thường được chia ở thì tương lai đơn. => CẤU TRÚC REMEMBER - Ý NGHĨA, CÁCH DÙNG KÈM BÀI TẬP CHI TIẾT! 2. Cách dùng câu điều kiện loại 1- Dùng để chỉ sự việc có thể xảy ra ở hiện tại hoặc tương lai:Ví dụ về câu điều kiện loại 1: If I get up early, I will go to work on time. - Dùng để đề nghị hay gợi ý: Ví dụ câu điều kiện loại 1: If you need a glass of water, I can get you one. - Dùng để cảnh báo hay hàm ý đe dọa: Ví dụ câu điều kiện loại 1: If you don't do your homework, you will be penalized by the teacher. 3. Những điều cần lưu ý khi sử dụng câu điều kiện loại 1- Ở một số trường hợp, cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 1 chấp nhận thì hiện tại đơn ở cả 2 mệnh đề.Ví dụ: If I want to play soccer, please play with me. - Mệnh đề “if” có thể dùng ở thì hiện tại tiếp diễn hoặc thì hiện tại hoàn thành. Ví dụ: If I keep working, I will finish my homework in an hour. - Mệnh đề chính có thể dùng ở thì tương lai tiếp diễn hoặc thì tương lai hoàn thành. Ví dụ: If I go to the post office early, I will be sending a letter. 4. Câu điều kiện loại 1 phủ địnhCông thức câu điều kiện loại 1 phủ định:If + S1 + tobe not /don’t/doesn’t + V-inf + O, S2 + will/can/may… + V-inf + O. Ví dụ cầu điều loại loại 1 dạng phủ định: If you don’t know her address, can tell you. Có thể dùng "Unless + Thì hiện tại đơn" thay thế cho "If not + Thì hiện tại đơn". Ví dụ: Unless we pass the driving test, we can not have driving license. https://preview.redd.it/gra5ed8lm9pa1.png?width=800&format=png&auto=webp&s=9cc9d74230b011f8a12a9206ff0c3a30b14d9d65 5. Đảo ngữ câu điều kiện loại 1Đảo ngữ trong câu điều kiện loại 1 sẽ giúp câu mang sắc thái lịch sự hơn và thường dùng trong trường hợp đưa ra lời yêu cầu, nhờ vả.Công thức đảo ngữ với động từ to be trong câu điều kiện loại 1: Should + S + (not) + be + … + S + will/may/can + V Ví dụ đảo ngữ câu điều kiện loại 1: If you are regularly late to work, you won’t get a bonus this month. = Should you be regularly late to work, you won’t get a bonus this month. (Nếu bạn thường xuyên đi làm muộn, bạn sẽ không được thưởng tháng này.) If the children are fine, their parents will be happy. = Should the children be fine, their parents will be happy. (Nếu lũ trẻ đều khỏe mạnh thì bố mẹ của chúng sẽ vui vẻ.) Đảo ngữ với động từ thường trong câu điều kiện loại 1: Should + S + (not) + V + … + S + will/may/can + V Ví dụ đảo ngữ câu điều kiện loại 1: If you go to work late regularly, you won’t get a bonus this month. = Should you go to work late regularly, you won’t get a bonus this month. (Nếu bạn thường xuyên đi làm muộn, bạn sẽ không được thưởng tháng này.) If the children feel happy, their parents will be satisfied. = Should the children feel happy, their parents will be satisfied. (Nếu lũ trẻ thấy vui vẻ thì bố mẹ chúng sẽ hài lòng.) Lưu ý: – “should” trong đảo ngữ câu điều kiện loại 1 không có nghĩa là “nên”, dùng should không làm thay đổi nghĩa của mệnh đề IF. – Câu chứa mệnh đề IF” gốc không có “should” thì ta mượn trợ động từ “should”, thực hiện đảo ngữ theo cấu trúc trên. – Nếu mệnh đề IF có “should” thì chỉ cần đảo “should” lên đầu câu. Ví dụ: If your students should need my help, I’ll be there in 10 minutes. = Should your students should need my help, I’ll be there in 10 minutes. (Nếu các học sinh của bạn cần tôi giúp đỡ, tôi sẽ đến đó trong 10 phút.) 6. Viết lại câu điều kiện loại 1Các dạng bài viết lại câu điều kiện loại 1:1) Dạng bài chia động từ Ở cấp độ cơ bản nhất, đề bài sẽ chia một vế cho mình rồi nên các bạn chỉ việc quan sát xem đó là câu điều kiện loại mấy mà áp dụng công thức cho đúng. 2) Dạng viết lại câu dùng IF Ở dạng bài tập này, đề bài sẽ có ta 2 câu riêng biêt và nhiệm vụ của chúng ta là nối 2 câu lại với nhau thành câu ghép, sử dụng IF hoặc các từ như so = that’s why (vì thế), because (bởi vì) Đối với dạng này nếu các bạm thấy: – Cả 2 câu đều chia thì tương lai thì dùng câu điều kiện loại 1 (không phủ định) – Một bên hiện tại, một bên tương lai / hiện tại thì dùng câu điều kiện loại 2 (phủ định) – Nếu có quá khứ trong đó thì dùng câu điều kiện loại 3 (phủ định) Ghi chú: – Phủ định là câu có not thì chúng ta dùng không có not và ngược lại – Nếu có because thì thay thế if ngay vị trí because – Nếu có so, that’s why thì để if ngược với vị trí của chúng. 3) Dạng viết lại câu đổi từ if sang dùng unless Unless = If.... not... => sẽ thế Unless vào chỗ chữ if và bỏ not, vế kia giữ nguyên. 4) Dạng viết lại câu đổi từ without sang dùng if Thay Without = If…. not…., bên kia giữ nguyên (tùy theo nghĩa mà có câu cụ thể) 5) Dạng viết lại câu đổi từ Or, otherwise sang dùng if Dạng này thường có cấu trúc là câu mệnh lệnh +or, otherwise + S will… Cách làm như sau: If you don’t (viết lại, bỏ or hoặc otherwise) 6) Dạng viết lại câu đổi từ But for sang dùng if Dùng : if it weren’t for thế cho but for,phần còn lại giữ nguyên Các dạng câu điều kiện ám chỉ: Provided (that), providing (that) (miễn là ) = if In case = phòng khi Xem thêm: => CÁCH SỬ DỤNG CẤU TRÚC WISH CÂU ƯỚC TRONG TIẾNG ANH VÀ BÀI TẬP => CẤU TRÚC HAVE TO + VERB : CÁCH DÙNG VÀ BÀI TẬP THỰC HÀNH CỤ THỂ C. Bài tập áp dụngCác bài tập bên dưới giúp bạn luyện tập cách sử dụng cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 1 và 2. Cùng tham khảo nhé.1. Bài tập câu điều kiện loại 1: Chọn phương án đúng1.1. If I (were/was/would be) ____ rich, I (will try/would try/tried) ____ to help the orphans.1.2. What (would you do/will you do/did you do) ____ if you (see/would see/saw) ____ a snake in your garden? 1.3. If I (was/would be/were) ____ you, I (asked/would ask/will ask) ____ for her help. 1.4. If he (finded/would find/found) ____ a child in the street, he (would take/took/taked) ____ him to the police. 1.5. If she (were/was/would be) ____ a color, she (is/would be/were) ____ blue. 2. Bài tập câu điều kiện loại 1: Chọn phương án đúng2.1. If I (have/would have/had had/should have) __________ the same problem you had as a child, I might not have succeeded as well as you have.2.2. I (would have visited/visited/had visited/visit) __________ my mom sooner had someone told me her were in the hospital. 2.3. (Needed/Should I need/I have needed/I should need) __________ more help, I would call my sister. 2.4. (Had I known/Did I know/If I know/If I would know) __________ then what I know yesterday, I would have saved myself a lot of time and trouble over the years. 2.5. Do you think there would be less misunderstanding in the world if all people (spoke/speak/had spoken/will speak) __________ the same language? Tham khảo chi tiết: BÀI TẬP CÂU ĐIỀU KIỆN LOẠI 1, 2, 3, HỖN HỢP, ĐẢO NGỮ (CÓ ĐÁP ÁN) Để nắm vững và áp dụng đúng cấu trúc câu điều kiện loại 1 và 2, bạn cần phải thường xuyên làm các bài tập ở dạng chọn đáp án trắc nghiệm, hoàn thành câu… Thực hành mỗi ngày không chỉ giúp bạn ghi nhớ tốt kiến thức mà còn hình thành phản xạ nhanh hơn với các dạng bài tập nhất định. Thường xuyên cập nhật các bài viết của Langmaster để học thêm nhiều kiến thức Tiếng Anh chính xác và thú vị nhé! Nguồn: https://langmaster.edu.vn/cau-truc-cau-dieu-kien-loai-1-2-cach-dung-va-vi-du-cu-the-nhat |
2023.03.22 11:12 kaiper_kitty My flashbacks are becoming frequent and it's awkward
Been doing cognitive behavioral therapy for a decade. Literally! Started at 14, now 24. I've only made really good progress these past few years and I'm proud of my growth, but theres some stuff I've been experiencing... I hope someone can relate? I don't think family and friends would understand...
lately I've been having vivid, brief, flashbacks of just super embarrassing and impulsive moments from when I was a kiddo/teen. I physically cringe and shake my head because I'm just like "ooohhh Kaiper noooo" in that moment lol.
They're becoming more frequent, and more vivid recently and I'm not sure why. Some of them are just dumb moments of embarrassment but others are things I'd rather not remember or have no need to remember. Oof especially when I drive or if I get anxiety in the passengers seat. Not your average nervousness unfortunately. (Workin on it)
I struggle not to disassociate when I practice driving. Straight up. It's not the worst because I'm still seeing what's around me, but I don't really feel like I'm present and more like I'm dreaming- not something I want behind the wheel. It makes it even harder to spot important details! There's dense traffic where I live.
Both of these behaviors are recent. Before, driving gave me panic attacks but I thought I was over it. I was getting kinda comfy and before I know it, I'm having to use my copin' skills to snap back to like reality I guess?? And the flashbacks used to just be background thoughts. Now they're almost like I'm there for a split second. Much more visual I suppose.
Super weird, and a lot of these flashbacks are just super embarrassing or emotional moments that are thanks to the lack of ADHD diagnosis as a kiddo.
Tips on coping? Anyone else got something similar going on? I don't want to get into it too much with my therapist because she's likely moving away. My psych recommended anti-depressants... But I'm still scared to take them ngl. I had bad emotional highs and lows as a teen being treated on antidepressants and anti psychotics. To be honest it's making me nervous
I know things are different now, but I don't want to ruin all my relationships and feel like going off the deep end again. No more grippy sock doc trips! Do y'all think ADHD maybe makes things things more bothersome or harder to tackle? I guess I'm kinda looking for someone to relate to. This happens to me just about daily right now!
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lately I've been having vivid, brief, flashbacks of just super embarrassing and impulsive moments from when I was a kiddo/teen. I physically cringe and shake my head because I'm just like "ooohhh Kaiper noooo" in that moment lol.
They're becoming more frequent, and more vivid recently and I'm not sure why. Some of them are just dumb moments of embarrassment but others are things I'd rather not remember or have no need to remember. Oof especially when I drive or if I get anxiety in the passengers seat. Not your average nervousness unfortunately. (Workin on it)
I struggle not to disassociate when I practice driving. Straight up. It's not the worst because I'm still seeing what's around me, but I don't really feel like I'm present and more like I'm dreaming- not something I want behind the wheel. It makes it even harder to spot important details! There's dense traffic where I live.
Both of these behaviors are recent. Before, driving gave me panic attacks but I thought I was over it. I was getting kinda comfy and before I know it, I'm having to use my copin' skills to snap back to like reality I guess?? And the flashbacks used to just be background thoughts. Now they're almost like I'm there for a split second. Much more visual I suppose.
Super weird, and a lot of these flashbacks are just super embarrassing or emotional moments that are thanks to the lack of ADHD diagnosis as a kiddo.
Tips on coping? Anyone else got something similar going on? I don't want to get into it too much with my therapist because she's likely moving away. My psych recommended anti-depressants... But I'm still scared to take them ngl. I had bad emotional highs and lows as a teen being treated on antidepressants and anti psychotics. To be honest it's making me nervous
I know things are different now, but I don't want to ruin all my relationships and feel like going off the deep end again. No more grippy sock doc trips! Do y'all think ADHD maybe makes things things more bothersome or harder to tackle? I guess I'm kinda looking for someone to relate to. This happens to me just about daily right now!
2023.03.22 11:10 Deenstheboi I made a song for Myla, not really good tbh, but I just wanted to write a song for her
Through the roads long forgotten In a Distant purple Shine Comes a Knight with cloak rotten Inside a crystal filled mine
Through the crystalline Walls Part of the Empire of the fallen King We hear a Distant, clear but small Voice that seems to Sing
A Bug, in the mines Alone Happily, the crystals hits Surrounded by those Magic Stones Just her, and its loyal pick
The name's Myla, she says A common bug doing her job Who believes is on a big progress To find the so called Magic rock
She asks if we would Stay Maybe give her some company However, we must get on our way But we shall meet again on our Journey
Back from the Tearful City Our Journey brings us to those mines once more Lets see if our friend Myla, maybe Found herself that special amazing ore
However, Myla seems different Tired, quiet, out of herself As a looking left out ant In her hiding spot on stealth
Tried to call for our friend Her words barely left her mouth She says she may be closer to the end But, it that what she really wants now?
Worried about her, we were However our Journey must continue, After leaving, Myla's Brain became a blur As "She" wanted to kill it, but Myla barely pulled through
After adventuring through the peaks Through crystals of light and plain Dark We found what maybe Myla was trying to seek The So called Crystal Heart
So lets meet her again Maybe she was just tired or sick Been a while since have seen a friend The One with the thy loyal pick
Then our souls get smashed As our friend we try to greet We are instead, with Myla clashed Us with our nail, she with her loyal pick
As my nail crosses her heart The Agony Scream she Gave was just too much Her desperarion and pain could Pull Lands apart Her little song in her fading voice echoed through such
I Pointed my Nail at the roof of the mine And told to Every God who could hear my silent Scream Mark my words, God of the Hive Of Greenpath, Wastes and Red Grim I am just a mere Knight Who is just as much as I may seem But I will Kill this Blinding Light That plagued my dear friends dream For Myla, I will make things Change To your delicate body I shall give Revenge
We shall now bury our friend A mere Miner, with big dreams To be a songwriter, compose her own Melodies Hear them through the crowds of the Hallow Lands
So, as Myla used to Sing: We'll bury the White False King We'll bury her friends miners, who died in the peak And then we will bury Myla, with her loyal pick
Not my best work, but wanted to share
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Through the crystalline Walls Part of the Empire of the fallen King We hear a Distant, clear but small Voice that seems to Sing
A Bug, in the mines Alone Happily, the crystals hits Surrounded by those Magic Stones Just her, and its loyal pick
The name's Myla, she says A common bug doing her job Who believes is on a big progress To find the so called Magic rock
She asks if we would Stay Maybe give her some company However, we must get on our way But we shall meet again on our Journey
Back from the Tearful City Our Journey brings us to those mines once more Lets see if our friend Myla, maybe Found herself that special amazing ore
However, Myla seems different Tired, quiet, out of herself As a looking left out ant In her hiding spot on stealth
Tried to call for our friend Her words barely left her mouth She says she may be closer to the end But, it that what she really wants now?
Worried about her, we were However our Journey must continue, After leaving, Myla's Brain became a blur As "She" wanted to kill it, but Myla barely pulled through
After adventuring through the peaks Through crystals of light and plain Dark We found what maybe Myla was trying to seek The So called Crystal Heart
So lets meet her again Maybe she was just tired or sick Been a while since have seen a friend The One with the thy loyal pick
Then our souls get smashed As our friend we try to greet We are instead, with Myla clashed Us with our nail, she with her loyal pick
As my nail crosses her heart The Agony Scream she Gave was just too much Her desperarion and pain could Pull Lands apart Her little song in her fading voice echoed through such
I Pointed my Nail at the roof of the mine And told to Every God who could hear my silent Scream Mark my words, God of the Hive Of Greenpath, Wastes and Red Grim I am just a mere Knight Who is just as much as I may seem But I will Kill this Blinding Light That plagued my dear friends dream For Myla, I will make things Change To your delicate body I shall give Revenge
We shall now bury our friend A mere Miner, with big dreams To be a songwriter, compose her own Melodies Hear them through the crowds of the Hallow Lands
So, as Myla used to Sing: We'll bury the White False King We'll bury her friends miners, who died in the peak And then we will bury Myla, with her loyal pick
Not my best work, but wanted to share
2023.03.22 11:10 lewhugh Homophobic customer gets cut off in spectacular fashion.
Middle of Mother’s Day (UK). We’re a family oriented restaurant but also have a top-class bar. We get a group of 4 rock up to the bartop. My Senior Bartender (let’s call her Jane) tells me they were in the other night and were dicks. Didn’t get cut off or anything, just rude. So she goes over to them says hi and drops a bev napkin in front of all of them. Now it’s key to note; Jane is a big girl, buzzed hair and pretty butch. Yes, she is gay. Now she’s with these customers while the 2 girls look at the menu the one guy whispers to the other (but audibly enough for me and Jane to hear) “that’s a dyke for sure!” Jane says nothing and takes there order. Makes 2 cocktails for the girls, pours a pint for the one guy and then puts a glass of water in front of the other guy. He starts to question it and she says “that’s what your drinking tonight, and your gonna like it. Cause if not this dyke is gonna drag you outside” He began to argue back saying he was joking, didn’t mean to offend, etc. but still asking for a drink. So she slid the other guys beer back to the bar side. And said “look what you’ve done now. Now your friend can’t drink because of you. Are you gonna deprive the girls of their drinks too?” He picked begrudgingly picked up his water and started to sulk over to one of the empty tables. But Jane called him back first and said “you need to close out your tab!” The girls are already at the table. So he comes back and she slaps the bill down. 2x Pornstar Martinis and 2x Budweisers. He says we never had those beers. And she looks at him, leans on the bartop so she’s face to face with him and says “do you want me to call a manager over?” He just slaps £30 down on the bar and walks off.
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2023.03.22 11:10 brumene Should they make a subclass survey and what subclasses should be in one DnD
As they said already each class will have 4 subclass, including a “base subclass” for each with that in mind I feel like they have the design space for putting some options that showcase the class and save at least one per class for something more unique that the players want to see. I would love to have a survey regarding what subclass from any book would we like to see a version in one DnD. I would like your opinions, do you think this survey would be good and what subclass would you like to see come back (or new ideas, those are always welcome 😁)
My opinions: Barbarian: Path of the beast or a 1/3 caster that can concentrate while raging
Bard: College of whispers
Cleric: Grave domain
Druid: Wildfire
Fighter: Rune Knight (my favorite) or Banneret (currently really weak, I would like to see a rework)
Monk: Way of the ascendant dragon
Paladin: Oath of Vengeance
Ranger: Gloom stalker or fey wanderer
Rogue: soulknife
Sorcerer: Divine soul (really anything that play with access to spell lists)
Warlock: fathomless
Wizard: School of Bladesinging
Keep in mind those picks were made for a non “base subclass” and I avoided PHB as those are the more probable of getting a new version
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My opinions: Barbarian: Path of the beast or a 1/3 caster that can concentrate while raging
Bard: College of whispers
Cleric: Grave domain
Druid: Wildfire
Fighter: Rune Knight (my favorite) or Banneret (currently really weak, I would like to see a rework)
Monk: Way of the ascendant dragon
Paladin: Oath of Vengeance
Ranger: Gloom stalker or fey wanderer
Rogue: soulknife
Sorcerer: Divine soul (really anything that play with access to spell lists)
Warlock: fathomless
Wizard: School of Bladesinging
Keep in mind those picks were made for a non “base subclass” and I avoided PHB as those are the more probable of getting a new version
2023.03.22 11:09 AdvancedDiscipline16 Am I getting psychological withdrawals only 1 week off T?
So as of right now, I've gone exactly 1 week without taking my shot(I take it every week) and I've gotta miss it for another week because I've got my top surgery coming up on the 30th!! (still very pumped about that) but tbh it's kinda sucked. When they told me I had to stop, I got pretty bummed about it. And I know 2 weeks isn't long at all, but those shots are quite literally one of the main things keeping me going.
So I noticed that since then I've been feeling really off, especially today. I've been mentally drained and dissociated a lot more than I've been in a while, and my mood has taken a bit of a toll.
There's this tightening sensation in my chest that feels like it's slowly being crushed, and all I want to do is sleep all day, scream and cry and tell the world to fuck off It's like, I've got the greatest thing coming up right around the corner and I just wanna be jumping up and down with pure joy but don't even have the energy or motivation to even get up and do that
I'm on antidepressants and I have been for quite some time, but It's only been up until now that I've just started feeling so shitty all of a sudden. I honestly don't know what's wrong with me, like if it's just solely my depression coming out of nowhere? Or because I haven't been taking my shot and it's some withdrawals, or just me being sad since I had to stop?
Just wanted to get this off my chest and hoping to hear if maybe any of you guys also had to stop T for a short amount of time and have felt something similar to this?
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So I noticed that since then I've been feeling really off, especially today. I've been mentally drained and dissociated a lot more than I've been in a while, and my mood has taken a bit of a toll.
There's this tightening sensation in my chest that feels like it's slowly being crushed, and all I want to do is sleep all day, scream and cry and tell the world to fuck off It's like, I've got the greatest thing coming up right around the corner and I just wanna be jumping up and down with pure joy but don't even have the energy or motivation to even get up and do that
I'm on antidepressants and I have been for quite some time, but It's only been up until now that I've just started feeling so shitty all of a sudden. I honestly don't know what's wrong with me, like if it's just solely my depression coming out of nowhere? Or because I haven't been taking my shot and it's some withdrawals, or just me being sad since I had to stop?
Just wanted to get this off my chest and hoping to hear if maybe any of you guys also had to stop T for a short amount of time and have felt something similar to this?
2023.03.22 11:09 NucularOrchid I turned him down, again.
I (28f) and my partner (35m) have been having some problems recently. I’ll start off by saying I’m the shyest person I know, I am so self conscious I even feel embarrassed crossing the street or walking into a shop let alone sex. Maybe it’s my autism or maybe my upbringing or maybe I’m just a broken human. Point is I hate myself and it makes sexual contact really, really hard.
I have never enjoyed sex, I used to do it because I thought I had to, if I went to a partners house it was like a thing I had to get through to enjoy their company. I was always shy, no lights, I’ve never opened my eyes during sex, dirty talk turns me off, I would refuse at least 75% of positions even in the dark as I wasn’t comfortable to get into them (69, riding etc) I have no idea how I got laid. Even if I got into it and relaxed a bit I’d feel embarrassed for days after.
My current partner of 8 years has erectile dysfunction. I didn’t notice at first as I thought he was taking stuff slow but nah. I never liked oral sex, I dislike it more than PiV sex. Not to say he isn’t good at it, I used to do it a lot more at the start of the relationship because I thought he was just leading up to sex.
However it’s been about a year, maybe longer since I let him go down on me and he really wants it. He says he gets his confidence from that and I should just relax. I’m never horny though and I don’t know what to do. He said he won’t leave me for it but also talks about it daily now. In his defence I really struggle with communication, and please, I know it’s childish but as I said I’m autistic and had a pretty bad upbringing where I got hit, a lot, from my mother. I struggle to open up, I’m terrified of healthily communication, I don’t even know how to do it without breaking down and crying and going non verbal. I don’t think he knows I could possibly go the rest of my life without sexual contact, where he said he doesn’t want to be an old man never having sex again.
I mean, he didn’t get off during our sessions. Maybe once or twice, but he doesn’t get hard at all so I have no idea what to do. I feel awkward. I am so lucky to have a man who wants me but I’m never horny. I can’t get into it if I’m never horny. I’m lost and kinda venting to be honest. I’m not expecting pleasant replies, it wouldn’t so nice but I usually get downvoted to fuck when I talk about my hang ups around sex which is sad as I thought this app was more inclusive than others. I’m in the dark, maybe one comment will open my mind to a new possibility. A new way of thinking. Or I’m being hopeful.
I wish I could be there for him sexually but I’m too shy, I feel too embarrassed during sex and even worse after. Last weekend he tried, he tried telling me what to do and I froze as speaking during sex just makes me panic, especially the words he used, he tried to guide my hand to his genitals and I froze, he tried to open my legs but I was locked up, he tried rubbing me all over and it just tickled and I didn’t like it. I’m stuck.
I had a blood test today to check my hormones so 🤞🏼
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I have never enjoyed sex, I used to do it because I thought I had to, if I went to a partners house it was like a thing I had to get through to enjoy their company. I was always shy, no lights, I’ve never opened my eyes during sex, dirty talk turns me off, I would refuse at least 75% of positions even in the dark as I wasn’t comfortable to get into them (69, riding etc) I have no idea how I got laid. Even if I got into it and relaxed a bit I’d feel embarrassed for days after.
My current partner of 8 years has erectile dysfunction. I didn’t notice at first as I thought he was taking stuff slow but nah. I never liked oral sex, I dislike it more than PiV sex. Not to say he isn’t good at it, I used to do it a lot more at the start of the relationship because I thought he was just leading up to sex.
However it’s been about a year, maybe longer since I let him go down on me and he really wants it. He says he gets his confidence from that and I should just relax. I’m never horny though and I don’t know what to do. He said he won’t leave me for it but also talks about it daily now. In his defence I really struggle with communication, and please, I know it’s childish but as I said I’m autistic and had a pretty bad upbringing where I got hit, a lot, from my mother. I struggle to open up, I’m terrified of healthily communication, I don’t even know how to do it without breaking down and crying and going non verbal. I don’t think he knows I could possibly go the rest of my life without sexual contact, where he said he doesn’t want to be an old man never having sex again.
I mean, he didn’t get off during our sessions. Maybe once or twice, but he doesn’t get hard at all so I have no idea what to do. I feel awkward. I am so lucky to have a man who wants me but I’m never horny. I can’t get into it if I’m never horny. I’m lost and kinda venting to be honest. I’m not expecting pleasant replies, it wouldn’t so nice but I usually get downvoted to fuck when I talk about my hang ups around sex which is sad as I thought this app was more inclusive than others. I’m in the dark, maybe one comment will open my mind to a new possibility. A new way of thinking. Or I’m being hopeful.
I wish I could be there for him sexually but I’m too shy, I feel too embarrassed during sex and even worse after. Last weekend he tried, he tried telling me what to do and I froze as speaking during sex just makes me panic, especially the words he used, he tried to guide my hand to his genitals and I froze, he tried to open my legs but I was locked up, he tried rubbing me all over and it just tickled and I didn’t like it. I’m stuck.
I had a blood test today to check my hormones so 🤞🏼
2023.03.22 11:09 everydayanewday Good morning, kiddo (it's 22 Mar 2023)
 | Well, this is where I say something like, "age doesn't matter," or "you're as old as you think you are." Something wise like that. Either way, fact is that I'm officially a year older. submitted by everydayanewday to DadForAMinute [link] [comments] Now, as a scout ahead on the route, I know it's expected of me to bring back news, information, insights. We already often talk about the things I find out here, what I think are useful nuggets I picked up somewhere along the road. But is there something special to say on a day like this? Well ... One: shut up. Should be so simple but it's not. We, I, want to help with the problem. We want to solve. Suggest fixes. "Cheer up". Show the silver-"well, at least it's not..."-lining. Or tell others what we think of it, whatever it is. I have the best conversations when I shut up. I already know what I think I know, and I already know my opinion and beliefs. Just...shut....up. If somebody wants to know, they'll ask; now, just listen. Two: support. Don't argue. I get erring on the side of caution, but I have learned over the years that erring on the side of caution means supporting the person. By the time someone tells you about a trauma, a hurt, a pain, a problem in their life, they have thought about it long, hard, and often enough. They have agonized if they were maybe the problem. If they see it all wrong. If maybe others are right. If maybe they demand too much. If they said enough. If they fought back enough or fought at all. They don't need you to go over the same old ground again. Again. And again. They've done that. And in case you can't....see rule #1. ...
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2023.03.22 11:09 georgiasaur135 My (25F) partner (34M) talks to my abusive ex
.TW: Brief mention of abuse
I (25F) have a boyfriend (34M), we've been together for nearly 3 years. My last relationship was less than ideal, I won't got into details but I suffered severe physical, sexual, mental and financial abuse. The only way I can describe it was horrific, it made me a very difficult person to be around. I've screamed, cried and followed my partner around the house during arguments when he just wants to get away from me, I've been controlling and in general, an insufferable peice of shit. I know I'm wrong, I know it's not healthy, I'm working on myself and have had intense therapy to deal with my trauma, it's a very difficult road and due to childhood trauma, my emotional development is stunted and I have huge reactions to small negative situations. My partner knows about the abuse. They both work for the same company, my partner has never had a friendship with my ex, not even before we broke up. Recently, (the past 6 months) my partner stops in the street to talk to my ex, they have debates and apparently my ex is more of a "neck beard" than before. At first I told him not to talk about me or talk to him when I'm with him. But recently, I've had this niggling feeling of unsafety. At first, I ignored it, thinking it would pass and I was just overreacting but it's gotten worse and I have asked my partner to please stop talking to my ex, I explained that I don't feel safe and I've only just gotten to the point where I can walk past him without having a panic attack, that's taken over 2 years to achieve. My partner is saying I'm trying to control who he talks to, and in a way, yes, I am. However, I feel like this is an exceptional circumstance, the man horrifically abused me. My partner is angry at me and throwing my past actions in my face and saying I'm being abusive even though I've come quite far from that, he never acknowledged the progress and when I ask how I'm being abusive, or say I've been trying my best and I'm not trying to be, he brings up past situations. I didn't scream or cry during this conversation, I just said this is something I can't compromise on. But now, I'm starting to doubt myself, should I have said anything? I worry if I'd have just left it, my feelings would grow in to this massive thing and I'd be back to square one.
Can anyone offer advice on what to do? Obviously, talking isn't helping and I'm not sure what will.
Extra info: My partner says that talking to my ex fulfills his love to debate over political and social issues, I'm not very good at it as I can get quite heated when my partner and I debate, but I've said to him that I really want to help with that fulfillment and I want his guidance on how to do it properly, but he refused.
Also, there are people that he works with that he doesn't like so he either avoids them or only says hello, this is what I've asked him to do with my ex, not completely cut contact.
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I (25F) have a boyfriend (34M), we've been together for nearly 3 years. My last relationship was less than ideal, I won't got into details but I suffered severe physical, sexual, mental and financial abuse. The only way I can describe it was horrific, it made me a very difficult person to be around. I've screamed, cried and followed my partner around the house during arguments when he just wants to get away from me, I've been controlling and in general, an insufferable peice of shit. I know I'm wrong, I know it's not healthy, I'm working on myself and have had intense therapy to deal with my trauma, it's a very difficult road and due to childhood trauma, my emotional development is stunted and I have huge reactions to small negative situations. My partner knows about the abuse. They both work for the same company, my partner has never had a friendship with my ex, not even before we broke up. Recently, (the past 6 months) my partner stops in the street to talk to my ex, they have debates and apparently my ex is more of a "neck beard" than before. At first I told him not to talk about me or talk to him when I'm with him. But recently, I've had this niggling feeling of unsafety. At first, I ignored it, thinking it would pass and I was just overreacting but it's gotten worse and I have asked my partner to please stop talking to my ex, I explained that I don't feel safe and I've only just gotten to the point where I can walk past him without having a panic attack, that's taken over 2 years to achieve. My partner is saying I'm trying to control who he talks to, and in a way, yes, I am. However, I feel like this is an exceptional circumstance, the man horrifically abused me. My partner is angry at me and throwing my past actions in my face and saying I'm being abusive even though I've come quite far from that, he never acknowledged the progress and when I ask how I'm being abusive, or say I've been trying my best and I'm not trying to be, he brings up past situations. I didn't scream or cry during this conversation, I just said this is something I can't compromise on. But now, I'm starting to doubt myself, should I have said anything? I worry if I'd have just left it, my feelings would grow in to this massive thing and I'd be back to square one.
Can anyone offer advice on what to do? Obviously, talking isn't helping and I'm not sure what will.
Extra info: My partner says that talking to my ex fulfills his love to debate over political and social issues, I'm not very good at it as I can get quite heated when my partner and I debate, but I've said to him that I really want to help with that fulfillment and I want his guidance on how to do it properly, but he refused.
Also, there are people that he works with that he doesn't like so he either avoids them or only says hello, this is what I've asked him to do with my ex, not completely cut contact.