Coyote calling sequence with foxpro | | Rocket League Custom Training

You cast Queen's Demand which then triggers both storm call and flame blast from each bot with spell echo, the extra CDR is also nice in getting the 1.5CD lower. Thoughts?

Little about me: I started playing ARK pretty much when it came out, when Island was the only map (IIRC it didnt even have name back then) and we had like third of the dinos that are now in the game. When Crystal Isles came out I decided to rent my first server and that was also when I discovered the power of .ini file editing. Since then I cant go back to playing regular ARK and each server I make has more crazy stuff in it. I have around 1.5k hours played as an admin/owner and god knows how many hours spent on thinking of/testing some crazy ideas. This is my 4th server, and like all of my previous servers it have some stuff changed.
Anyone who played this game for enough to reach "end game" realized how easy the game becomes once you get some stronger tame like Rex or Wyvern (which are pretty easy to get). ARK is great game and has A LOT of stuff to do in the end game if you are into PvP, but it lacks challenging PvE content. Even Alpha bosses can be beaten w/o mutated dinos, so if you are pure PvE player, there is no incentive for you to work on upgrading your dinos. One might think "oh just lower rates on the server and it wont be that easy, you wont finish that fast". That doesnt really fix the problem, it just makes the game more tedious and, for most, boring. Thats lazy way of doing it. However there is other way. It can be fixed, if you know how (and are willing to do a lot of work)
Here is how did I "rewrite" this game to become PvE focued game, instead PvP

Every flyer and glider dino was removed from the game. You will have acess only to land and water dinos, you wont be able to "skip" every danger by just flying over it
Every ridable land and water dino has been rebalanced and divided into 6 groups: Small Herbivores, Large Herbivores, Small Predators, Large Predators, Water Dinos and Titans. No longer you will be able to oneshot pretty much everything the moment you tame a Rex/Spino. That also means all dinos are "end game viable" and you can breed/mutate whatever you want, it will be viable to do all the content in the game
All alphas were rebalanced. They are no longer walking loot/exp pinatas, they will be strong enough to consider them a challange and call them "mini bosses".
The map boss stats were changed on all 3 difficulties to be more challanging (alpha one will be pretty darn tough)
Some end-game recipes were changed to become "chase items". Mostly stuff from S+ mode like Propagator, Mutator, Tek crafting benches
All beacons have been changed. They no longer containt the garbage items that they normally have, instead they contain every single item in the game that can have quality (saddles, weapons, tools, armours). All of them are also "randomized" so they are simillar in "power", White beacon has just as good items as Red one
"The Market" was added. Its a place with "vendors" where you can sell many of the dino loots and few gatherables and also buy some end game stuff and other cool stuff. The "currency" is mutagen, which normally cant be aquired on this map, but also is used in breeding so that fixes potential inflation problem in the future

Here are some additional changes that make the experience more casual/fun and more info about the server:

Dinos from other maps were added to the one we play on. The plan is to add every single land and water dino available in the game. We currently have some of them added, more of them will be added over time
Extra resources that nomrally cant be aquired (on this map) were added
Every dino is breedable and can be mutated. Even those that normally cant, like Rock Golem, Karkinos or Reaper. As long it can fit in cryopod (no Titanosaur breeding, sorry)
Infinite element. Every player will have acess to stash with "infinite" amount of element. Tek tier has a lot of cool stuff and locking them behind the boss fight (and tedious grind if you need more) is not that fun
All engrams are auto-unlocked

Stats of the server:
Player ressistance: 0.5 (means we take half the DMG)
Item Stack Size: 3 (with custom stack size for certain items)
Taming speed: 24 (3 speed, 8 hunger)
Harvest: 5 and XP: 5
Egg Interval: 0.2, Mating interval: 0.075, Egg Hatching: 20, Baby mature: 30
Turret Damage (to dinos): 5
Unlimited respecs
Mods on the server: Awesome spyglass, Strucutures+, Steampunk, Dino Storage, Simple Spawners
Map: The Center
Plans for the future:
Boss Arena: This place wil be your place for your end game challenges, place where you will test out how strong are your dinos or some crazy ideas how to kill the easier bosses

Boss Arena will have no restrictions other than time limit (for server safety, boss will despawn 60 min after spawning if not defeated). That means you can bring as many dinos as you want, any dino you want and even use machines/building to cheese the fight. The only rule is to not break the arena walls/flooceiling.
Arena will have 5 bosses available: Broodmother, Megapithecus, Dragon, Deinopithecus King and Rockwell
Every boss battle will have 15 difficulty levels. Yes, you see it right, 15, not usual 3.
Boss arena will also have Mini Bosses aka Alphas - you will be able to fight alphas in here. Alphas that you can pick are Karkinos, Reaper King, Basilisk and Deathworm.
All Mini Bosses fights will have 10 difficulty levels.
All fights on the Arena will have some entry fee (paid in currency - mutagen) but if you win, you will be able to sell the loot for more than you paid, so it also will be source of income

Remaining dinos that are not added yet. Currently there 9 dinos missing on the map,I plan to add them over time, one per week, so people will have time to interact with one before next one will appear.
If you are interested in playing on this server feel free to contact me on the reddit or join us on the discord: https://discord.gg/daikirai
Once you join the discord server got to #ARK and check pinned comments and feel free to ask me anything (My name is 【𝐀𝐘𝐍𝐈𝐗】on the server)

9 Toronto (also 38-39). Miami moved within 1 1/2 games of No. But I do like the fact that we finally won a game. ”The Mavs had been 7-0 this season when shooting at least 54% and fell to 30-2 all-time including playoffs in games where they shot at least 60%. “Our defense was nonexistent” Dallas coach Jason Kidd said. “Anything can happen. ”Miami changed its starting lineup partly out of necessity. 9 Minnesota (39-39) and just a half-game ahead of No. … I’ve never felt like I really belonged to be honest with you” Popovich told the Associated Press and it’s not a gimmick. He missed a floater in the final seconds that would have given him 50 points. Did he want 50?“Who wouldn’t?” he said. Look what they’ve done for the league and how much the league calls them back – because they’re ambassadors of this great league and they have a great voice and a great message. 6 Brooklyn (42-35). - Alpha AI

I'm looking for someone to chat with or voice call with frequently or semi-frequently. Someone chill, open minded and understanding. We could play some PC games, watch anime/shows/movies together or just talk about life. It doesn't even have to be that serious. We can keep it shallow or attempt to go in deep. Don't mind at all if you're shy or awkward. No pressure to continue chatting if we're not connecting or vibing. I won't take it personally and I hope you won't either.
Please include some information about yourself when you message me Some info about myself that might be relevant:

I'm Asian American
Definitely more introverted
Trying to do more outdoorsy things
Born and raised in Southern California
I love reading fantasies, manga, sci-fi, horror, and poorly written web novels
I play on PC. Hit me up for some gaming sessions!
Raised Buddhist but I'm not religious at all
Big fan of crime procedural shows (Criminal Minds, Numbers, Psych), cartoons like Furturama/Avatar:TLA, Archer, Venture Bros, Rick and Morty, Simpsons, ect and anime (used to be a weeb)
Love anthology shows (Twilight Zone, Outer Limits, Love Death + Robots, Beyond Belief)

Hi guys, I don’t know if anyone will see this but if you do please consider reading. (On phone and I write very bad sorry if there is any mistakes)
(Be cautious this has mentions of harsh topics around mental health I put a spacer in between the seconds not containing it and the one that did)
I’ve been friends with this girl who I will call Jessica for about a year (we became better friends around October). She was very funny when I first got to know her but recently has been saying things that make me question how nice she is. There is so many things she’s done too me like make fun of me for getting trust issues and abused by a past partner. I have never once made a joke about her past relationships or anything along that line. She asked to play a game where we said things we didn’t like about each-other. She went first and called me a whore, bitch, crybaby and pick me. I never got my turn because she kept saying more things about me until I left the call we were in. I told a mutual friend of ours (who was still on the call) what had happened because she wasn’t there when it happened. She told me too join the call again and I did. Jessica told me she was sorry and wouldn’t say those things anymore. I forgave her.
— Later the mutual friend told me that the second I left the call Jessica started making fun of me again and calling me more names like before. Jessica also makes jokes about my mental health by saying things like “omfg shut up already I hope you relapse” “go to a mental hospital already” and more that I won’t say. —
There’s been so many times where I went to bed crying over the things they’ve said too me. When she was already in a five month relationship she decided to pretend to like one of our friends. That friend who I’ll call Sam ended up liking Jessica and confessed to her. Jessica and him started dating and when me and other mutual friends told you not to because it was mean you brushed it off and said “but it’s funny”. Jessica said “I’ll break up with Sam on Valentine’s Day” (10 days after they started dating) but instead never broke up with him because “it’s so funny” Jessica stepped over sams boundaries throughout the whole relationship. Whenever sam would ask a simple question like “can you delete that photo” or “can you not call me that” Jessica would say “Sam moment” and mock him for being upset. Jessica has made fun of me and said things like “I’m your only friend” and “go eat lunch alone and cry” after I asked them too delete a photo of me. Jessica would take photos of me and I would say “don’t send that too anyone” and they would send it too everyone they knew in front of me while I told her to stop.
Shes done so much more that I just don’t want too remember right now as jut writing this makes me sad enough. I already have a draft of what I would say too then but I’m worried I’m being too sensitive about this. Please give me any advice or opinions on this and if something is confusing please ask and I can explain. Again, sorry for the weird format and mistakes I’ve never written one of these before.

The following events happened on this day in history!

What event was your favorite in this list?

Little about me: I started playing ARK pretty much when it came out, when Island was the only map (IIRC it didnt even have name back then) and we had like third of the dinos that are now in the game. When Crystal Isles came out I decided to rent my first server and that was also when I discovered the power of .ini file editing. Since then I cant go back to playing regular ARK and each server I make has more crazy stuff in it. I have around 1.5k hours played as an admin/owner and god knows how many hours spent on thinking of/testing some crazy ideas. This is my 4th server, and like all of my previous servers it have some stuff changed.
Anyone who played this game for enough to reach "end game" realized how easy the game becomes once you get some stronger tame like Rex or Wyvern (which are pretty easy to get). ARK is great game and has A LOT of stuff to do in the end game if you are into PvP, but it lacks challenging PvE content. Even Alpha bosses can be beaten w/o mutated dinos, so if you are pure PvE player, there is no incentive for you to work on upgrading your dinos. One might think "oh just lower rates on the server and it wont be that easy, you wont finish that fast". That doesnt really fix the problem, it just makes the game more tedious and, for most, boring. Thats lazy way of doing it. However there is other way. It can be fixed, if you know how (and are willing to do a lot of work)
Here is how did I "rewrite" this game to become PvE focued game, instead PvP

Every flyer and glider dino was removed from the game. You will have acess only to land and water dinos, you wont be able to "skip" every danger by just flying over it
Every ridable land and water dino has been rebalanced and divided into 6 groups: Small Herbivores, Large Herbivores, Small Predators, Large Predators, Water Dinos and Titans. No longer you will be able to oneshot pretty much everything the moment you tame a Rex/Spino. That also means all dinos are "end game viable" and you can breed/mutate whatever you want, it will be viable to do all the content in the game
All alphas were rebalanced. They are no longer walking loot/exp pinatas, they will be strong enough to consider them a challange and call them "mini bosses".
The map boss stats were changed on all 3 difficulties to be more challanging (alpha one will be pretty darn tough)
Some end-game recipes were changed to become "chase items". Mostly stuff from S+ mode like Propagator, Mutator, Tek crafting benches
All beacons have been changed. They no longer containt the garbage items that they normally have, instead they contain every single item in the game that can have quality (saddles, weapons, tools, armours). All of them are also "randomized" so they are simillar in "power", White beacon has just as good items as Red one
"The Market" was added. Its a place with "vendors" where you can sell many of the dino loots and few gatherables and also buy some end game stuff and other cool stuff. The "currency" is mutagen, which normally cant be aquired on this map, but also is used in breeding so that fixes potential inflation problem in the future

Here are some additional changes that make the experience more casual/fun and more info about the server:

Dinos from other maps were added to the one we play on. The plan is to add every single land and water dino available in the game. We currently have some of them added, more of them will be added over time
Extra resources that nomrally cant be aquired (on this map) were added
Every dino is breedable and can be mutated. Even those that normally cant, like Rock Golem, Karkinos or Reaper. As long it can fit in cryopod (no Titanosaur breeding, sorry)
Infinite element. Every player will have acess to stash with "infinite" amount of element. Tek tier has a lot of cool stuff and locking them behind the boss fight (and tedious grind if you need more) is not that fun
All engrams are auto-unlocked

Stats of the server:
Player ressistance: 0.5 (means we take half the DMG)
Item Stack Size: 3 (with custom stack size for certain items)
Taming speed: 24 (3 speed, 8 hunger)
Harvest: 5 and XP: 5
Egg Interval: 0.2, Mating interval: 0.075, Egg Hatching: 20, Baby mature: 30
Turret Damage (to dinos): 5
Unlimited respecs
Mods on the server: Awesome spyglass, Strucutures+, Steampunk, Dino Storage, Simple Spawners
Map: The Center
Plans for the future:
Boss Arena: This place wil be your place for your end game challenges, place where you will test out how strong are your dinos or some crazy ideas how to kill the easier bosses

Boss Arena will have no restrictions other than time limit (for server safety, boss will despawn 60 min after spawning if not defeated). That means you can bring as many dinos as you want, any dino you want and even use machines/building to cheese the fight. The only rule is to not break the arena walls/flooceiling.
Arena will have 5 bosses available: Broodmother, Megapithecus, Dragon, Deinopithecus King and Rockwell
Every boss battle will have 15 difficulty levels. Yes, you see it right, 15, not usual 3.
Boss arena will also have Mini Bosses aka Alphas - you will be able to fight alphas in here. Alphas that you can pick are Karkinos, Reaper King, Basilisk and Deathworm.
All Mini Bosses fights will have 10 difficulty levels.
All fights on the Arena will have some entry fee (paid in currency - mutagen) but if you win, you will be able to sell the loot for more than you paid, so it also will be source of income

Remaining dinos that are not added yet. Currently there 9 dinos missing on the map,I plan to add them over time, one per week, so people will have time to interact with one before next one will appear.
If you are interested in playing on this server feel free to contact me on the reddit or join us on the discord: https://discord.gg/daikirai
Once you join the discord server got to #ARK and check pinned comments and feel free to ask me anything (My name is 【𝐀𝐘𝐍𝐈𝐗】on the server)

Example recently, despite being quite nice and upfront and honest about a mod decision, users tried to call me a promoter of hate speech and a fascist etc, because I didn’t remove a comment they didn’t like.
Now since that has been killed off, some user or bunch of users have been trying to report my comments first to the sub, which is rejected automatically as I am mod, but now to Reddit. It is obvious to me that they are clutching at straws, but I am a little worried that they may succeed unfairly given some people’s stories of being banned without warning and not even being told. So I guess is there any advice anyone can give me about dealing with this attempted cancellation? Should I avoid posting for a while for example as obviously I can’t know who is reporting.

"#Social #Cocooning" - the "new desire for solitude" or "cultivated aloneness"
After the oh-so-homely Christmas season with all its social and societal "hyggelig" (another new buzzword, albeit from the Danish ;-)) has dawned in the cosy circle of family and friends before the pleasure-load-bending food and gift-bursting gift table, now might be the right moment to pause once again. But "oh dear", so much for "pause" and "O how joyfully..." in common sadness under the "O Christmas Tree,...".
For some fellow human beings, this "human fussiness" is simply too much; they don't even have to be pathological sociopaths, bearish misanthropes or inveterate singles. No, on the contrary, it is apparently this new desire, at the more or less freely selected loneliness, as cultivated being alone, the so-called "Social Cocooning" as new future trend. This current "Zeitgeist phenomenon" I would like to go for given cause therefore once in the following essay in the context of a social-theoretical analysis on the trace.
More at: https://philosophies.de/index.php/2022/12/24/social-cocooning/
There is an orange translation button "Translate>>" at the bottom left.

Hello, I want to know if how I can input this condition in excel. I'm using Excel to solve USD reinforced concrete analysis, and the value for beta ( β ) is determined by the three conditions.
I already input the formula for three conditions and all are working.
Condition 1: "If the concrete compressive strength has a value between 17-28, then β=0.85"

=IF(AND(OR(E11>17,E11=17),OR(E11<28,E11=28)),0.85,"X")

Condition 2: "If the concrete compressive strength is greater than 28 but less than 55, then β=0.85-(0.05/7)*fc'-28

=IF(AND(E11>28,E11<55),0.85-(0.05/7)*E11-28,"X")

Condition 3: "If the concrete compressive strength is greater than 55, then β=0.65"

=IF(OR(E11>55,E11=55),0.65,"X")

Now, I want to have a single cell that automatically copies which of the three conditions has a value so that I could use that single cell to input it in the succeeding formulas but I don't know how to do it if there's three values. Also, In the condition 2, I would like to know if there's any way to input another condition inside a if function (I would like to make an option wherein the denominator for 0.05 is changed when the given follows ACI (in which the denominator is 7) or NSCP (the value should be 8).
I don't know how to call this condition and I can't search it on youtube. Pardon me if it's an obvious answer, our school insisted that we should know how to manually solve this so I'm not familiar with the excel formulas.

EDIT: excel formula format

my father has blamed me for her death my whole life. and despite the kind of person he is and his judgment probably not being very valid, in this case he might be right. and i doubt i’ll ever fully stop blaming myself.
my mom died during childbirth. when she got pregnant for the first time with me and my twin brother, she was 18. so half my dad’s age. that time she gave birth in a hospital. but after, my dad would make her give birth at home. maybe cause he couldn’t be bothered driving 2 hours to the nearest hospital. or he didn’t want anyone to become suspicious. either way, he was never there when she’d be giving birth. my abuela would help my mom. except the last time when my mom was home alone with us and she went into labor. i guess it was too early since she was unprepared. i was 7. dad put me in charge. he was probably out drinking or doing some sketchy stuff for money. i thought my mom could handle it, she did it before, more than once. and she said she would be fine. i’d just bring her water but i was actually taking care of my younger siblings. basically, she had a hemorrhage. she lost a lot of blood really quickly. i thought she was just tired and asleep. i didn’t call the ambulance
when my dad came home, i genuinely thought he was going to kill me. and he almost did. and there wasn’t a day after that where he wouldn’t bring it up and blame me

TD;LR Fiancé and I grew apart and I’m wondering if It’s because I didn’t give this enough time to see it through.
Fiancé(30 M) and I (26 F) have been engaged for a year and dating for 7. Over the last year since we’ve been engaged it seems like my partner stopped putting effort into the relationship. He plays video games all weekend (literally sun up to sun down) and couldn’t care less if we went on dates or had quality time together on the weekends. He expected me to make all the plans, take care of the household, and be “content” with date nights as us sitting on the couch and me watching him play video games. He said he was really depressed and didn’t like his job and felt like he needed to escape. He’s definitely battling depression because he’s really increased his drinking over the past year as well. He gets home before me and it’d really bother me that he never helped me with dinner, never even tried to cook anything saying “he just can’t cook so it’s not worth trying” and expected me to handle most of the household chores with the exception of the trash and him mowing the lawn on occasion.
I very clearly communicated to him that I felt like we were drifting apart and I wanted to spend time together more. He didn’t seem to understand and said I was the one drifting apart because I’m expressing my unhappiness about our situation all the time. We stopped having sex and he barely even cuddled me. This made me angry and I felt rejected and hurt in the relationship. I feel as though subconsciously he thought putting a ring on my finger would mean he’d have me under any circumstance. I also thought it was a red flag that he was telling people we were already married behind my back and when I confronted him about this he said “we should just tell people we’re already married, it’s easier than having a wedding”. I feel so hurt and confused I finally broke it off with him after him saying counseling is stupid and he’s not going to go. He makes significantly less than me and now can’t find a place to move out to because of the rent cost to income ratio and isn’t even trying to win me back despite this wake up call. I frequently wonder if I’m being too harsh, but I knew I couldn’t take this for years to come with no end in sight. I feel disregarded and cry about this because it doesn’t seem severe enough for me to want to break it off. What if I’m making a huge mistake? I’m scared I won’t find love again. If anyone can help me with insight please help.

"#Social #Cocooning" - the "new desire for solitude" or "cultivated aloneness"
After the oh-so-homely Christmas season with all its social and societal "hyggelig" (another new buzzword, albeit from the Danish ;-)) has dawned in the cosy circle of family and friends before the pleasure-load-bending food and gift-bursting gift table, now might be the right moment to pause once again. But "oh dear", so much for "pause" and "O how joyfully..." in common sadness under the "O Christmas Tree,...".
For some fellow human beings, this "human fussiness" is simply too much; they don't even have to be pathological sociopaths, bearish misanthropes or inveterate singles. No, on the contrary, it is apparently this new desire, at the more or less freely selected loneliness, as cultivated being alone, the so-called "Social Cocooning" as new future trend. This current "Zeitgeist phenomenon" I would like to go for given cause therefore once in the following essay in the context of a social-theoretical analysis on the trace.
More at: https://philosophies.de/index.php/2022/12/24/social-cocooning/
There is an orange translation button "Translate>>" at the bottom left.

I've been very worried about my health lately and aware that I didn't eat any fruit. I started off with a fruit I considered somewhat safe, apple, and made myself eat one every day. I now start to crave apples and really enjoy it after just a few weeks! I'm now trying a new fruit each week, a little piece everyday. Last week was strawberries, and at first I hated it but each day my body became accustomed to it until the end of the week where it was more manageable. I still wouldn't call it a safe food but its something I can manage! This week I'm going to be doing grapes. Just tried my first one, it was a lot easier than the strawberry. There was actually nothing wrong with the taste or texture but my brain was forcing me to stop. I hope with time my brain will stop doing that. I didn't realise how much arfid had control. Anyway, I just wanted to share because I'm really proud of myself for doing something I was afraid of!

https://openmolecules.org/name2structure.html is the website I'm using and it won't render 3-chloro-n-t-butyl-β-keto-amphetamine.
Or even simply 3-chloro-n-t-butylcathinone
Which should render just as well as bupropion.
Why is this? What am I doing wrong? Shouldn't 3-chloro-n-t-butyl-β-keto-amphetamine be equivalent to bupropion? Sorry if I'm missing something.
The voices in my head are calling me stupid. They say I am stupid and they say they are justified because I am and I'm also a piece of shit and have no place in society.
Keep in mind I've never actually seriously studied chemistry I'm just interested in nomenclature because I think it's neat and like coming up with alternative/round about names for various compounds. I've just done some googling about organic chemistry and watched a few videos on Ochem 2 years ago back in my junior year of hs when I was geeked out on Dexedrine and obsessed with coming up with alternative names for compounds to be funny. I thought saying shit like Fuck yeah bro once I get my hands on some I'ma get geedered and thwacked off of N,α-dimethylphenethylamine was peak comedy for some reason.
Either way I'd like some help figuring out what I'm doing wrong with my nomenclature.

I started driving about a week ago.
Just after midnight I accepted a Del Taco order.
While in line, about 4 cars deep, I accepted a McDonald's order.
I thought 'Awesome! Two For One.'.
Drove to the McDonald's just up the road.
I was hoping to be able to walk in and grab the order. No luck. The door was locked. I could see on the counter a few Mobile Order Bags waiting to be picked up. So I couldn't help but think one was mine, and wondered how many cars in line were normal customers and not drivers like me.
The line was about 15 cars deep. One of those McDonald's with two order lines.
After about 15 minutes, I had only moved one care space up in line, and 3 cars had gotten in line after me.
I felt so bad for the person who ordered the Del Taco, who's food was getting cold.
So I cancelled the McDonald's order and was able to leave the line.
I called the Del Taco customer and told him what had happened, since I was unsure if he was notified that I also had to go to McDonald's for someone else.
He said that he appreciated it and tipped me $8.
Driving for Uber Eats late at night sucks to have to wait in long Drive-Thru lines.
McDonald's should have a worker hand deliver orders to drivers, making lines shorter for normal customers, I think.
That's all. Thanks for reading.

This is just my personal top 5, from least to most saddest (all are very sad though)

S3 Clem remembering how The New Frontier took AJ from her
S2 Clem and AJ leaving Kenny for Wellington
S1 Lee's final moments
S4 Ending (From Clem getting bitten all the way to the end)
S4 Clem's dream sequence with Lee

I like talking to my homies but I’ve been talking to this man for 2 hours and I ain’t tryna tell him I’m goin to sleep cuz he gon flame my ass and I ain’t tryna have that happen💀

I (F20) Dean (M31) have been dating for just over two years.
Sorry for the bad grammar I’m bad at English. There were no issues when we first started dating except for our age gap. My friends have always disapproved, but eventually, they warmed up to him. It was only last year that things started to become quite strange between the both of us. He told me he wanted me to move in with him but he was in the process of moving out of his flat, so I was slightly confused until he said he wanted me to in with both him and his mum. wanted After some convincing from Dean and his mum, I moved in with them both as this was meant to be temporary and I and Dean were meant to get a flat together. Dean's mum would then have a live-in carer to take care of her. At first, it was fine. I was working part-time as a waitress as Dean was financially taking care of me. Dean asked if I could help around the house and help his mum, since I worked fewer hours than him. I happily said yes, since I loved both him and his mum. Now Dean's mum has arthritis on her feet as well as other health conditions. She’s not mobile and needs help with pretty much everything. Like I said, it was fine at first until I started getting calls from Dean while I was at work asking if I could help with changing his mum or making her something to eat for lunch. This caused quite a bit of friction because it’s difficult to just up and leave work like that but I would always end up coming to help. He would constantly call me at work to the point where he suggested I just quit my job and he could just work for the both of us. I agreed to help out for a while. In the meantime, Dean was looking for someone to be a live-in home carer for her so I wouldn’t have to do all the work. Weeks turned into months and Dean just stopped trying and he started not to help around the house at all. He started coming back from work late smelling of alcohol and what I think is weed. He then started to berate and call me stupid and lazy if I hadn’t made him dinner or cleaned up the dishes in the sink. It all started to become too much for me, but I loved Dean and his mum and Dean was financially responsible for me. I don’t speak with my parents so I can’t ask them for advice on this. I made a plan to start trying to save up money by doing online jobs so I could leave, but my friends said I would be an asshole if I just left him and his sick mum. They said I’m just using them and I should be ashamed. I’m stuck and I don’t know what to do. I feel like I might be the asshole if I did decide to leave